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Mental health guidance, therapy insights and practical support
Supportive, practical articles designed to help you better understand mental health, therapy and emotional wellbeing.
Whether you are exploring therapy for the first time, supporting someone else, or simply looking for reliable information, Horizon Connect provides clear and approachable guidance to help you take the next step with confidence.
We support people across Plymouth, Saltash, Ivybridge and surrounding areas, as well as online where appropriate.


Parental Alienation Resources: Finding Support in the UK
Parental alienation can be a deeply painful experience. When a child becomes distant or hostile towards one parent, often due to the influence of the other, it can leave families feeling lost and unsure where to turn. If you’re navigating this difficult path, it’s important to know that help is available. In the UK, there are a variety of resources designed to support parents, children, and families affected by parental alienation. I want to share some practical information a
Alan Stokes
Sep 285 min read


Family Boundaries Strategies: Healthy Boundaries for Family Relationships
Family relationships are some of the most important connections we have, yet they can also be the most challenging.
Alan Stokes
Sep 74 min read


You trained to be a therapist
Nobody tells you how many different jobs can come with private practice.
You may be a therapist, but you can also find yourself becoming a marketer, content creator, website manager, enquiry handler and business administrator.
Then, when a client arrives, you are expected to put all of that aside and be completely present.
Alan Stokes
Jul 291 min read


Bad Therapy vs Good Therapy: What’s The Difference?
For many people, deciding to reach out for therapy is already a vulnerable step.
It often comes after:
emotional overwhelm
relationship difficulties
anxiety
burnout
grief
trauma
emotional disconnection
confidence struggles
years of silently trying to cope alone
Alan Stokes
Jul 204 min read


Confidence and Intimacy: Understanding the Connection
Many people think confidence and intimacy are separate things.
They are not.
Emotional confidence influences:
how safe we feel emotionally
how we communicate
how comfortable we feel in our body
how vulnerable we allow ourselves to be
how connected we feel in relationships
Alan Stokes
Jun 243 min read


Confidence and intimacy are far more connected than most people realise.
Many women believe intimacy struggles are simply “physical”.
But emotional well-being, stress, confidence, communication, anxiety, emotional safety, and self-worth all play a significant role in how connected we feel — both emotionally and physically.
Alan Stokes
Jun 181 min read


Why Many Women Quietly Disconnect From Themselves In Relationships
There are many women who appear completely “fine” from the outside.
They go to work.
They parent.
They support others.
They maintain relationships.
They keep life moving.
Alan Stokes
Jun 172 min read


Why People Emotionally Withdraw When Overwhelmed
One of the hardest things I’ve had to reflect on over the last few years is how emotionally distant I became while trying to survive everything life was throwing at me.
At the time, I didn’t fully realise it was happening.
I thought I was coping.
Functioning.
Managing.
But looking back now, I can see that I was emotionally withdrawing from the people around me long before I admitted how overwhelmed I truly was.
Alan Stokes
Jun 24 min read


Why You Keep Repeating the Same Patterns in Relationships
Different person. Different circumstances. Different outcome.
But somehow, you find yourself in a familiar place again—
the same arguments, the same feelings, the same ending.
This is one of the most common and frustrating patterns people experience.
And it’s rarely about bad luck.
alison stokes
May 253 min read
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