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Mental health guidance, therapy insights and practical support
Supportive, practical articles designed to help you better understand mental health, therapy and emotional wellbeing.
Whether you are exploring therapy for the first time, supporting someone else, or simply looking for reliable information, Horizon Connect provides clear and approachable guidance to help you take the next step with confidence.
We support people across Plymouth, Saltash, Ivybridge and surrounding areas, as well as online where appropriate.


Bad Therapy vs Good Therapy: What’s The Difference?
For many people, deciding to reach out for therapy is already a vulnerable step.
It often comes after:
emotional overwhelm
relationship difficulties
anxiety
burnout
grief
trauma
emotional disconnection
confidence struggles
years of silently trying to cope alone
Alan Stokes
2 days ago5 min read


How to Choose the Right Therapist (And Why It Matters More Than You Think)
Starting therapy is one step.
Choosing the right therapist is another—and it’s just as important.
Many people assume:
“As long as they’re qualified, it will work.”
But in practice, the fit between you and the therapist often matters more than anything else.
Alan Stokes
Jul 133 min read


You Don’t Have to Be in Crisis to Get Help: When Therapy Actually Works Best
There’s a common belief about therapy:
“It’s for when things get really bad.”
For many people, this belief delays getting support.
They wait until:
They feel overwhelmed
Things start affecting daily life
They’re unsure how to cope
But in reality, therapy often works best before things reach that point.
Alan Stokes
Jul 63 min read


When Your Confidence Takes a Hit: How It Happens and How to Rebuild It
Confidence rarely disappears overnight.
More often, it fades gradually.
You start to question yourself more.
You hesitate where you wouldn’t have before.
Decisions feel harder. Speaking up feels riskier.
From the outside, it might not be obvious.
But internally, something has shifted.
Understanding how confidence drops—and how to rebuild it—is key to moving forward.
Alan Stokes
Jun 293 min read


The Mental Load No One Talks About: Why You’re Always Tired
You’re not physically exhausted—but you feel drained.
You’ve slept. You’ve taken time off.
But the tiredness doesn’t fully go away.
It’s not just about how much you’re doing.
It’s about how much you’re holding in your mind.
This is often referred to as the mental load—and for many people, it’s constant.
Alan Stokes
Jun 223 min read


What Actually Happens in Therapy? (And Why It’s Not What Most People Expect)
For many people, therapy feels like a big step.
Not because they don’t want help—but because they’re not sure what they’re walking into. Common thoughts include:
Alan Stokes
Jun 83 min read


Dealing with Loneliness When Living Alone
Living alone can be a wonderful experience. It offers freedom, independence, and the chance to create a space that’s truly your own. But it can also bring moments of loneliness that feel heavy and hard to shake. I’ve been there, and I want to share some gentle, practical ways to manage those feelings. You’re not alone in this, and there are simple steps you can take to feel more connected and supported.
Alan Stokes
May 254 min read


Meet Natasha Roskruge: Professional CBT, Counselling and Coaching Support in Plymouth & Saltash
Many people looking for therapy today want more than a listening ear. They want someone who can help them understand what is happening, give practical tools, and support real progress.
That is where working with Natasha Roskruge through Horizon Connect can be an excellent fit.
Public profile information describes Natasha as a CBT counsellor and coach with over a decade of experience, supporting people through life’s challenges toward greater confidence, balance and fulf
Alan Stokes
May 122 min read
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